tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post5494635534568278895..comments2024-01-28T22:16:42.451-08:00Comments on Dear Little Auntie: When Mom and Dad love the bro moreLittle Auntiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16279010843700950235noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post-81473207576693359082012-03-02T04:24:46.206-08:002012-03-02T04:24:46.206-08:00i even thought same for a while but i adored my br...i even thought same for a while but i adored my brother aswell he was an inspiration and def. d reason ma parents gave him more attention was because he was good in studies and he made dem feel proud. now i understand and i hope no misunderstanding comes between <br /><br /> :)Yasminhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02405819021164942409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post-74241036390359784892012-02-23T02:36:35.899-08:002012-02-23T02:36:35.899-08:00Though it maybe true that brothers are sometimes f...Though it maybe true that brothers are sometimes favoured...all of you people who have brothers have got to be satisfied in having a brother for i dont have one and sometimes am sad about it.<br /><br /> Anyway everything is ALLAH SWT's wish....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post-77262512927242788372012-02-22T08:53:48.889-08:002012-02-22T08:53:48.889-08:00Sippingchai: I'm happy to hear that you realiz...Sippingchai: I'm happy to hear that you realize love can be expressed in different ways. (And I saw your latest post- absolutely loved the pictures, mashaAllah tabark Allah.)<br /><br />Shireen and Haseefa: May Allah help all of our parents treat us fairly. May He grant us patience when they don't, and make us turn to Him always, and love Him more. :D :DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post-43345010057436634432012-02-20T06:58:22.092-08:002012-02-20T06:58:22.092-08:00Excellent advice! MashaAllah!
I love these the fo...Excellent advice! MashaAllah!<br /><br />I love these the following advices!<br /><br />"And anytime, your parents seem to think about your brother first and you feel a little hurt, remind, yourself, that Allah is saving something for you in jannah…something truly special.."<br /><br />"Every time that you are unfairly treated, remember that Allah knows. And rest assured that He will never let any of your acts go unrewarded. <br /><br />…and whatever good you put forward for yourselves - you will find it with Allah. Indeed, Allah of what you do, is Seeing. (2:110)<br /><br />"And think about it this way. Maybe your brother got your parents because Allah chose you for HIM. He wanted you to draw closer to Him…"<br /><br />Those words are sooo comforting!Haseefanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post-11106645130403775462012-02-19T22:43:28.829-08:002012-02-19T22:43:28.829-08:00I am definitely gonna put my 2 cents here - when I...I am definitely gonna put my 2 cents here - when I read the question I really felt like 'Woah there's somebody else going through it just like me'<br /><br />I speak from experience - I spent almost half of my life disliking my brother and hating him occasionally because of the way my parents treated him. He is the one and only son of my parents, plus he's a boy and plus we come from a typical Indian society that should say it all ;)<br />My sis and I used to think that we are second class citizens in our family and I won't lie the last time I complained about the partiality my mom did was just about 2 months back :P because these things they stay in our hearts - because they at one point hurt so much that every now and then there's an outburst if you don't take care of it like i didn't<br /><br />My advice? In retrospect - my mom did love me but her way was different , I kind of accept the fact now that love is a natural thing it cannot be imposed on anyone. Most of all, Allah swt witnesses what you are going through and perhaps he's making you go through this so that it becomes a means of earning reward for you.<br /><br />I know it's really tough I can soooo vouch for that.. But sometimes even complaining to parents doesn't help I tried it plenty - Just have to remember at the end of the day its Allah whose love is really gonna matter. I know it sounds very oft repeated advice but its the truth... :)<br /><br />cheer up you! *hugs*Shireen Baighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03048667572261091848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post-72457946582248265532012-02-19T19:43:11.915-08:002012-02-19T19:43:11.915-08:00As always excellent advice, Masha'Allah! When...As always excellent advice, Masha'Allah! When I was younger, I thought my mother favored my brother over me. As an adult, I look back and realize how my mother showed me her love was different and I was blind to it. You offered so many different ways of looking at it. Really loved reading the advice.<br /><br />My recent post http://sippingchai.wordpress.com/2012/02/19/sungei-buloh-wetland-reserve/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com