tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post774797049048025510..comments2024-01-28T22:16:42.451-08:00Comments on Dear Little Auntie: Breaking Your Papa and Mama's TrustLittle Auntiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16279010843700950235noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post-23031890913092751642013-03-14T04:13:48.380-07:002013-03-14T04:13:48.380-07:00Whenever Shaytan reminds you of your past, remind ...Whenever Shaytan reminds you of your past, remind him of his future.<br /><br />Seriously.<br /><br />Just let it go.<br /><br />Forgive yourself.<br /><br />Live.<br /><br />Breathe.<br /><br />Listen to soothing sounds. Lie in bed and watch the sunlight through the window. Reclaim your innocence.<br /><br />Remember, virginity is just a human concept invented by men--the only Islamic concept is of haya and purity. By this I don't mean that premartial sex is allowed. I just mean that any act, which may be considered to "darken the character", does not lower your status as an individual. We are all beloved humans in Allah's Eyes.<br /><br />May Allah bless us all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post-34668955377298890562013-03-10T05:45:33.677-07:002013-03-10T05:45:33.677-07:00Assalamoalikum! I've been recently suggested t...Assalamoalikum! I've been recently suggested to bookmark this blog and be its regular reader by someone I fancy and who like you guys & all the good work you've been up to here. i'm loving reading & it, of course, Is my first comment here.<br />To the sister, who's feeling ashamed confronting her parents after whatever she did, I'd like to say that they simply don't need to be told anything, you know, would hurt them. In addition to what our little aunt said above, you don't need to dwell in past. When Allah has given you this chance to have a lesson why would you simply spoil it by letting it go before your parents or anybody else? Just make sure, you're not going to repeat it ever again to much of your guilt. Hope It helped. :)pyarinoreply@blogger.com