tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post8181193186388719258..comments2024-01-28T22:16:42.451-08:00Comments on Dear Little Auntie: My Broken Family Breaks My HeartLittle Auntiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16279010843700950235noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post-83005965338765764692012-01-16T21:07:41.799-08:002012-01-16T21:07:41.799-08:00SubhanAllah, listen to this lecture. It is absolut...SubhanAllah, listen to this lecture. It is absolutely amazing! It's by Mufti Muhammad ibn Adam al-Kawthari. I felt loads better after listening to it, alhamdulillah.<br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K_Vxhsl4iEQApple Blossomshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08846994955139501696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post-62003159084012478922011-08-11T17:24:54.442-07:002011-08-11T17:24:54.442-07:00excellent advice. inshaAllah things will get bette...excellent advice. inshaAllah things will get better for the sister and her family!oldie goldiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09268812315077848978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post-38525755468585045712011-08-10T23:50:08.634-07:002011-08-10T23:50:08.634-07:00Awww, Anonymous! SubhanAllah!
I just wanna remind...Awww, Anonymous! SubhanAllah!<br /><br />I just wanna remind all of us here that our families here will never be perfect and there will always be problems. This is the dunya... It's the way we deal with the problems that matters. <br /><br />One thing you can try doing now that Ramadan is here and saying that you're tired of all the fights and why don't you guys start over? Call for a family meeting together. You want to rebuild respect, trust, cooperation and honesty in your house. Decide together on the rules that are acceptable in the house. Decide what words are allowed in the house and what are not. Put up signs on the wall. …You’re going to build your family all over again :) If chores are a problem, make a schedule.<br /><br />Also! It's important that we plan fun days with our families... Have a barbeque. Go to a theme park. Invite some family friends over. Do an activity together. Sign up for a class together. Bake a cake with your mom and sister. Plan a holiday together to a nearby city. Go to an Islamic convention together. Make a goal together- and put money in little jar for it.<br /><br /> Read Qur’an together and pray together. I cannot stress how important that is. I’m not only talking about the 5 prayers. Wake up before fajr at least 20 minutes and pray a few rakahs..wake your sister up....<br /><br />InshaAllah things will get better <3Little Auntiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16279010843700950235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post-27065168125328949272011-08-09T08:15:15.465-07:002011-08-09T08:15:15.465-07:00I feel heartbroken too whenever I read about famil...I feel heartbroken too whenever I read about family problem:'( Try follow advice and do not lose hope. My Dua' is with you sister. <br /> MinjiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post-50152496544205582832011-08-08T11:52:04.146-07:002011-08-08T11:52:04.146-07:00This is good advice. Happy Ramadan. :-)This is good advice. Happy Ramadan. :-)OzarksUSAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11343284174685698739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post-19483907996665317922011-08-08T05:32:03.192-07:002011-08-08T05:32:03.192-07:00@nUr: Some excellent advice there honey, that is t...@nUr: Some excellent advice there honey, that is true - PATIENCE is key (:<br /><br />@Anon: That made me 'dorky-smile' and gave me wonderful goosebumps. (: SubhanAllah <3<br /><br />Much love to all <3 (: Smile :DTheSisterWhoSmileshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09805164235319559218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post-47406880651998889762011-08-07T17:53:42.161-07:002011-08-07T17:53:42.161-07:00Subhanallah! Last night, I was having a hard time ...Subhanallah! Last night, I was having a hard time thinking about the problems I face in my family. We fought over little issues. Issues that were supposed to be mini turned into arguments plus issues that are not related at all. Was thinking about writing to dear little auntie, but decided to pour it all out to Allah instead, cried n cried. I just did't know what to do. I was not the kind of person who likes to share any of my problem to friends because I would only like to pour it all out to Allah. Humans don't understand. Even though how good they are to you, they will always have judgments in their head. And I certainly would not like them to make any about my own family. And today, I saw this article. Thank you Allah..^_^Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458157138768641619.post-44980245645713662612011-08-06T22:20:28.334-07:002011-08-06T22:20:28.334-07:00Wanna give a big huuuuuggg to you too sister!
It a...Wanna give a big huuuuuggg to you too sister!<br />It ain't easy to live in that situation, but whenever your heart feel pain , heal it with du'a to our Rabb. He knows well, He puts you in this trial so He is the One that can help you to go through with it. Ask for the strength and of course, PATIENCE is needed. Maybe you and your sister can share the feelings together and support each other. It is nice to have someone that can comfort us and the shoulders to cry on. With that, inshaAllah, you will feel a little bit of calm..nUrhttp://thebittersweetoflife.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.com