99th post. Dear Sister...

>> Tuesday, April 12, 2011


Five Reasons Why Allah Uses Problems

I'm not sure who wrote this but I got it in my e-mail. I edited it a bit :)

The problems you face will either defeat you or develop you - depending on how you respond to them. Unfortunately, most people fail to see how Allah wants to use problems for good in their lives. They react foolishly and resent their problems rather than pausing to consider what benefit they might bring.

Here are five ways Allah wants to use the problems in your life:

1. Allah uses problems to DIRECT you.
Sometimes God must light a fire under you to get you moving. Problems often point us in a new direction and motivate us to change. Is God trying to get your attention? "Sometimes it takes a painful situation to make us change our ways." Ask yourself- have you become obsessed with the dunya? Have you forgotten the aakhirah? Remember, this life is not our only life. Out of His Mercy, Allah subnaoo Wa' Tala sometimes gives us problems to remind us of that.

2 Allah uses problems to INSPECT you.
People are like tea bags...if you want to know what's inside them, just drop them into hot ever water! Has God tested your faith with a problem. What do problems reveal about you? "When you have many kinds of troubles, you should be full of joy, because you know that these troubles test your faith, and this will give you patience."

Do the people think that they will be left to say, "We believe" and they will not be tried? (Surat Al Ankabut, 2)

3. Allah uses problems to CORRECT you.
Some lessons we learn only through pain and failure. It's likely that as a child your parents told you not to touch a hot stove.... But you probably learned by being burned. Sometimes we only learn the value of something... health, money, a relationship. .. by losing it. "It was the best thing that could have happened to me, for it taught me to pay attention to your laws."

4. Allah uses problems to PROTECT you.
A problem can be a blessing in disguise if it prevents you from being harmed by something more serious. Last year a friend was fired for refusing to do something unethical that his boss had asked him to do. His unemployment was a problem - but it saved him from being convicted and sent to prison a year later when management's actions were eventually discovered. "You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good..".

5. Allah uses problems to PERFECT you.
Problems, when responded to correctly, are character builders. God is far more interested in your character than your comfort. Your relationship to God and your character are the only two things you're going to take with you into eternity. "We can rejoice when we run into problems...they help us learn to be patient. And patience develops strength of character in us and helps us trust God more each time we use it until finally our hope and faith are strong and steady."

Remember, also that in Islam problems and trials if borne with patience can be used to erase your sins and elevate your ranks. In a narration, the Prophet said that:  A servant continues to be tested until he walks the Earth without a single sin on him.” (Ahmad, Tirmidhi)

“A human being is tested so that he may come to know the reality of himself and others. Life is consists of constant testing; testing with what is bad, or testing with what is good. However, what is best for the believer may be found in what he hates, and what is bad for him may be found in what he likes. The true believer is the one who loves that which Allah has chosen for him. So, if He tests him with something that he loves, he thanks Him, and if He tests him with that which he hates, he is patient and thanks Him in this case, as well.  And Allah – the Glorified – gives the believer in accordance with what will lead to his happiness in either this World or the next. So, if it is better for him to have something, Allah gives it to him. If it is better for him not to have something, Allah prevents him from having that thing, just as one who is sick is prevented from too much food or water. Therefore, it is upon a person to completely submit to Allah – the Glorified – in regards to what He has chosen for him, and to be pleased with what Allah has given him, and to understand that if Allah prevents him from something, then it is because Allah wishes to save him from being tested with that thing.”
(This quote from: here)

Here's the point:

Allah is at work in your life - even when you do not recognize it or understand it.

But it's much easier and profitable when you cooperate with Him.

Lots of love,
the little aunties

11 wonderful sprinkely thoughts:

Anonymous,  April 12, 2011 at 3:04 AM  

Masha Allah this is beautiful! JazakAllah Khayr for sharing this sis.. Good reminder for everyone insha Allah!

Zara A April 12, 2011 at 5:16 AM  

Congrats on the 99th Post sister!
And Masha'Allah that was a truly beautiful post!

Layla April 12, 2011 at 6:53 PM  

Very inspiring post! :) It really got me thinking about half of all my problems.

May Allah Taa'la bless you for sharing your knowledge of Islam with us. Ameen!

Blue Pearl April 13, 2011 at 12:59 AM  

Mabrook on 99 posts dear one/s. I love all your posts:) Your replies are so well written that there leaves no room for comments most of the time.

Blue Pearl April 13, 2011 at 1:00 AM  

Ps: Mean't to say this too, I love this "Whosoever relieves from a believer some grief pertaining to this world, Allah will relieve from him some grief pertaining to the Hereafter..."

Little Auntie April 13, 2011 at 5:09 AM  

awwww, Jazakun Allah khair, sisters.

blue Pearl, that's too kind. I think you guys have great comments and insights to add, ma'sahAllah :)

Ummu 'Aisyah April 14, 2011 at 3:21 AM  

Assalammualaikum Little Aunties,

What a wonderful article. I hope you don't mind if I share it on my blog, I will credit you.


Little Auntie April 14, 2011 at 3:25 AM  

^Oh no, don't credit me! I wrote in tiny handwriting up there that I don't know who wrote it...I just got it in my e-mail :)

But definitely, do share. It's a great article :)

Anonymous,  May 14, 2011 at 11:30 AM  

I would like to know how to send mails/post questions here. Jazakallah khair

Little Auntie May 14, 2011 at 11:31 AM  

Just e-mail it in to dearlitteauntie@gmail.com



Anonymous,  May 22, 2011 at 10:26 PM  

jazakallah khair auntie....myself and my niece were wondering how to contact you guyz :-)

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